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                             Home Group, Autumn Term 2003

Back to Basics (with apologies to J Major)

A Series of Home Group Studies on the Basics of Faith, Following the Communion Service

 

Session 1: September 22nd A Brief History of God

For reading: If you’re feeling really bold, sit down and read the whole of Genesis – the first book in the bible.  Otherwise, have a go at reading one or more of these chapters from Genesis: 2,4,7, 15, 32, and 50.  Also Psalm 19.

For information: No one knows where the Genesis story came from.  We do know that the people who put it together about 2600 years ago would have laughed at any notion that it was a factual history.  The story is woven together from a number (at least two and maybe as many as thirty) of different sources.  It is thought to have been compiled during the Jewish exile in Babylon (Iraq) as a means of declaring the superiority of the God of Israel over the Gods of Babylon (chapter 1 is a point by point rebuttal of the Babylonian creation myth) and of showing that the Jewish nation was uniquely chosen by God to preserve God’s involvement in the affairs of the world – despite their forefathers being a generally useless bunch of no-good malcontents.  If God could look after Jacob then he can surely look after us seems to be the subtext. Along the way, it also shows how people and God slowly drifted apart and the pattern of miserable human existence became established, in which God is a bit-part player who only occasionally intervened in their lives – as they hope he will now.

 

Some thoughts:

1) How does God change through the Genesis story?

2) What do you make of the people God “chooses”?

3) Most, but not all, ancient societies had religion as part of their life.  Augustine said that we have a “God shaped hole in our hearts”.  Is belief in God and/or a thirst for things spiritual natural or a product of our society?

4) Psalm 19 and other passages suggest that belief in God is only natural once you have experienced nature.  Conversely, the 19C poets questioned how the God of love could have created a lion or a spider.  Can we really believe in “God” when we are now Gods through science, understanding all things?

 

The sessions roughly follow the communion service.  This first part is very short:

After the greeting and first hymn, this prayer may be said

All Almighty God, to whom all hearts are open, all desires known, and from whom no secrets are hidden: cleanse the thoughts of our hearts by the inspiration of your Holy Spirit, that we may perfectly love you, and worthily magnify your holy name; through Christ our Lord. Amen.

 

This prayer makes some bold statements that you might want to debate:

1) That God knows, and is interested in, everything about us.

2) That God can change the way we think and act.

3) That the aim of our lives is to love and worship God.

 

 

Session 2: September 29th  What’s sin got to do with it?

For reading:  Genesis chapter 3. Psalm 32, and Graham’s sermon, which follows.

For information:  Another aspect of the Genesis story is that it seeks to understand the reason for the suffering that the people were experiencing.  This was rewritten (from an earlier, longer, lecture) on the morning the deaths of the Soham girls was announced.

 

On Holly & Jessica 18 August 2002

“My God, my God, why have you forsaken me? Why are you so far from saving me, so far from the words of my groaning?  O my God, I cry out by day, but you do not answer, by night, and am not silent.”

Suffering, for a Christian, is the biggest problem of all.  For, if God is all loving, all knowing and all-powerful, why do we suffer?  Why do those we love suffer?  Why does God not fix it?  Why, in the midst of suffering does God seem so powerless, so lacking in knowledge, so lacking in love? 

Throughout the bible, the writers struggle with this subject of suffering:  Why suffering?  Whose fault is it?  How do we get out of it?  The answers, when they are given, are often contradictory or found wanting.  The first attempt is right back in Genesis.  Probably a compilation of very ancient stories written down when the Jews were enslaved in exile, these stories attempt to answer the unanswerable.  How did we get here?  Whose fault is it?  How do we get out of it?  And in their ancient stories they find their own story, their own experience.

Read Genesis quickly and it appears certain that the broken relationship, sin, is the cause of suffering.  That theme is repeated in the accounts of the Exodus and in the stories of an Israel that continuously walks away from God and suffers for it.  It’s obvious: We sin; we suffer.  We do good; we prosper.   There is truth in this, and God calls on us to repent of our sins, to change our ways, for as we rebel against him and his laws we invite trouble into our lives. 

The story of Cain and Abel that follows uncovers an uncomfortable truth that the exiles lived with – the good die young, while the wicked prosper.  Ah, say some of the writers, they get their comeuppance in the end.  But they don’t, and that still doesn’t explain the fate of the righteous.  So the writer introduces another character – the serpent, or Satan, the embodiment of evil, an evil force that we know and feel on days like this.

But dig deeper into the Genesis story and be amazed.  For on page 3 of my bible, “the Word of God”, the writer poses the ultimate question – is God to blame for suffering? 

God starts by making us in his own image, but two things appear to be lacking – God’s eternity, which he sustains in us but may withdraw at his choosing, and the knowledge of good and evil.  The knowledge of what?  Surely God, who is good, does not encompass evil?  But it is the beings made by God in the image of God who sin; the serpent made by God who tempts them; the fruit made by God which enslaves them in evil.  The Genesis writer offers no explanation, just a book-full of stories about the utter mystery of God as we experience Him.  Genesis would never have got shelf-room in a Christian bookshop if it did not come packaged with Paul’s helpful letters.

 

Read Genesis and the Psalms and you may come away with the idea that God is mixed up in this mess of a world far more than we’ve been led to believe.  And the writers don’t seem to care – for this is their reality, their experience.  It is only those of us who have grown up with the idea of God as a remote sugar daddy who find it difficult.  But go beyond Genesis into the New Testament and you discover that God has mixed himself up in it even more.

The words I began with (Psalm 22) are the words used by Jesus on the cross.  There, God himself undergoes every form of suffering, especially that of losing his faith, his knowledge of God’s presence.  Not just body, mind and spirit but also personal integrity, his very being, utterly broken, darkness the only clothing for his nakedness; darkness, his only friend.  The thorns of the ground crown him; the sweat of his brow waters the ground.  Dust swirls around him as he is planted like a tree back in the dust from which he came.  Wine, the fruit of good and evil, is thrust into his parched throat.  A flashing sword cuts off his last hope of access to the tree of life and a stone is rolled across the exit from the garden tomb.

The bible offers no glib answer to the “Why?” that we want to scream today.  But its stories lead us to a God who enters into the story, our story, who shares the pain, and bears in himself all the evil and suffering of the world. 

The God who cursed us has become the cursed for us.  The cross, the tree of knowledge of good and evil, has become the tree of life, and we who have known good and evil are invited to reach out and eat its fruit and to share that fruit with those who have tasted only the bitterness of evil. 

 

In the communion service we have this:

Let us confess our sins in penitence and faith, firmly resolved to keep God’s commandments and to live in love and peace with all.

All Almighty God, our heavenly Father, we have sinned against you and against our neighbour in thought and word and deed, through negligence, through weakness, through our own deliberate fault.   We are truly sorry and repent of all our sins. For the sake of your Son Jesus Christ, who died for us, forgive us all that is past and grant that we may serve you in newness of life to the glory of your name.  Amen.

And I say: Almighty God, who forgives all who truly repent, have mercy upon you, pardon and deliver you from all your sins, confirm and strengthen you in all goodness and bring you to everlasting life through Jesus Christ our Lord, Amen

 

So,

1) What is sin and who defines it?  (A quote from Ian Hislop of Have I Got News For You: “One hundred years ago the church taught that fox hunting was the highest calling of humanity and homosexuality the worst imaginable sin, and now they’ve swapped them.”)

2) The bible (e.g., Psalm 32) suggests that sin creates a barrier between God and us.  What do you think separates us from God?

3) Is sin a satisfactory explanation for suffering?

 

Session 3: October 13th Dusty black book?

For reading:  Psalm 19 (again).  John chapters 20&21. All of 2 Timothy (or just chapter 3)

For information:  The bible consists of 66 separate “books”.  39 of these are taken from the Jewish writings (the Old Testament, written and rewritten over millennia) and 27 from early Christian writings (the New Testament).  The content and order were worked out over many centuries and debate continues to rage over which manuscripts most closely reflect the original intent.  The division into chapters and verses is relatively recent.  The arrangement of the books is different in some Catholic bibles and they also include the “Apocrypha” – a series of allegorical, historical and “words of wisdom” writings from about 200BC. 

In the communion service we read a passage from either the Old or New Testaments followed by a passage from one of the gospels – themselves compilations of stories about Jesus collected about 50 years after his death.  After the reading we hear:

This is the word of the Lord.  All: Thanks be to God.

That’s a bold claim – that this collection of ancient writings, compiled by committees of old men, transmitted by word of mouth or hand-copying over millennia, originating in societies totally different to ours, (in the case of the Old Testament, not dissimilar to Afghanistan under the warlords), is somehow not only relevant to us but actually God’s means of talking to us. 

People who start reading the bible tend to go through these phases:

a) What a dreary book.  b) What a fascinating book.  c) Wow!  d) I want to understand this.  e) Oo, er, this is much more difficult than I thought.  f) Oh, so that’s what it’s about!

Few, if any of us, ever get to the last stage; most of us get stuck part way. 

Early Christians did not have a bible.  The Jewish Christians would have had access to the Old Testament.  Letters from leaders were circulated.  Stories about Jesus were used in preaching.  Down the centuries illiterate people have happily coped without access to the bible, other than hearing the stories or seeing pictures portraying the stories.

 

Some though provokers:

1) Where are you on Graham’s scale? 

2) What has been your reaction to the bible passages you’ve been reading?

3) A question asked during my training: When does the bible become “the word of God” – When it was written? When you read it? When you follow it? What do you think?

4) How could God speak to you through the bible?  Why doesn’t He just whisper in your ear or send you a letter?

 

Session 4: October 27th:Is anyone listening?

For reading:  Matthew chapter 6.  Psalm 42, Acts chapter 4.  Graham’s true story (follows)

For information: Prayer in the bible is something that is taken for granted – people pray and God answers, or not.  Either way, there is an expectation that simply talking to God can change the course of one’s life.

Prayer takes many forms, from “God!” through formal statements to silent meditation.  Examples of all can be found in the bible – along with all sorts of suggested postures.  Incidentally, it is very British to kneel for prayer – most Christians stand.

The content of prayer also varies – Adoration of God, Confession of sin, Thanksgiving or Supplications (a little list I learnt years ago – it spells ACTS) or any combination. 

Some people pray silently; a certain Curate has been known to shout and swear at God – quite effectively it has to be said, though rubber soles help.  Others pray using a “prayer language” – a language unknown to them but through which they communicate with God.

In the communion service “intercessions” we are invited to pray for the church, the world at large, our family and friends, those who suffer and those who mourn, and we remember those who have died.  We use a set form of words, interspersed with the Minister’s own.  The prayers often include this refrain:

Lord, in your mercy,   All: hear our prayer.

Merciful Father,  All: accept these prayers for the sake of your Son,
our Saviour Jesus Christ.  Amen
.

These statements seem to imply the following:

1.        That God does not answer prayer automatically – only if he feels like it.

2.        That our access to God and his willingness to listen is because of Jesus.

Do you agree?

Here are some thoughts on prayer for you to think about and discuss:

1.        “Prayer is being in God’s presence.  Intercession (asking prayer) is being in God’s presence with others on your heart.”  M Ramsey, former Archbishop

2.        “If you don’t believe in God, try praying for yourself.  If you don’t believe in the devil, try praying for someone else.”  Anon

3.        “I know that answers to prayer are only coincidences but why, when I stop praying, do the coincidences stop?”  G K Chesterton

4.        “Prayer is to faith what breathing is to life.”  Anon

Prayer can be done in a group or individually.  I’ve been to a service where for an hour and a half everyone prayed together out loud – but all different prayers.  It was heavenly.  Equally so was a service I attended in a monastery where the monks sat in silence.  Paul, writing to the church in Philippi, says this: “Rejoice in the Lord always.  I will say it again: Rejoice! ….  Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God.  And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and minds in Christ Jesus.”  So, here’s an idea:  Make a list of a few things that are worrying you and agree as a group to pray (or do so now).  And see what happens……..

 

A true story

Gary and Eileen were an elderly couple we met when we moved to Medway 25 years ago.  Eileen had Motor Neurone disease.  Gary was, to put it bluntly, a few pence short of a pound – he was a railway guard but how he ever managed to give change for a ticket I’ll never know.  Amy and Chris were mutual friends with 3 young children.  Chris was a postman and the family lived a hand-to-mouth (or, more often, hand-to-debt-collector) existence. 

I turned up on Amy & Chris’s doorstep one day to find a For Sale sign on their rusty old Fiat and them in great agitation.  They had, yet again, got themselves in deep money trouble and needed to find £750 by the following evening or they faced eviction from their rented home.  The rusty car might, if cleaned up and polished and given a new MOT, have been worth £250.  As Marilyn and I were equally strapped for cash, though mercifully without the debt, I couldn’t see how to help.  And, as £750 was two month’s income in those days, my faith was not up to it either. 

I went to see Gary and Eileen.  They had lived on next to nothing for the best part of 40 years so why I thought they could help is a mystery.  Gary said, “we should pray!”  My response was, to say the least dismissive.  “You pray, Gary,” I said, “my faith isn’t up to it.”  So Gary prayed.  He only ever prayed one prayer, the one he had learnt at school.  So off he went, “Our Father….”  “Yeah, thanks, Gary,” I mumbled as I left their house.

The next evening I got a frantic phone call from Amy.  How she found the 2p to put in the box I didn’t ask, but she had a weird story to tell.  Chris had been on early shift so they had their “last lunch” as they waited for the knock at the door.  When it came there was a man standing there.  They expected him to hand over some official papers but he said, “Is your car still for sale?”  “Er, yes,” said Chris, adding in his hopelessly honest way, “but it’s not very good and it’s only got a month’s MOT.”  “I’ll take it,” said the man, “will £750 be enough, cash?”  He handed over a pile of fivers, took the keys and the papers and drove off in their car.  They’ve never seen or heard from him since.

Eileen died a few months after this.  George followed about three years later.  I sat with him as he died.  “Can we pray?” he asked.  I didn’t have a clue what to say so just mumbled something about not knowing what to say but he ignored me and started his prayer.  His last words were:

 

Our Father, who art in heaven, hallowed be thy name;

thy kingdom come; thy will be done; on earth as it is in heaven.

Give us this day our daily bread.

And forgive us our trespasses, as we forgive those who trespass against us.

And lead us not into temptation; but deliver us from evil.

For thine is the kingdom, the power and the glory, for ever and ever.  Amen.

 

Session 5 November 10th: Come on in.

For Reading:  You could read the whole of Mark’s gospel – it doesn’t take long.  Or just chapters 14 to 16 or just verses 12 to 26 of chapter 14.  Acts chapter 2 – or just the last few verses, 42-47

For info: The communion service goes right back to the beginnings of the Christian faith.  Based in part on the Jewish Passover meal it came to have much greater significance.  We can see from the snippet in Acts that it was integral to a way of life that revolved around their new faith.  As the faith developed the simple act of remembering Jesus at every meal became a more and more elaborate ritual – to the extent that the state persecutors started spreading stories of cannibalistic feasts.  For a few hundred years the ritual defined a Christian service – it took place in secret, often in a forest or other hiding place – and was only open to true and trusted believers.  Those who were not yet admitted to the inner fellowship had to leave the meeting before the communion began.  After the Roman state made Christianity the state religion things began to change rapidly and the strict terms of admission to communion were watered down, (literally, as infant baptism for all became the norm.)  As the Roman church developed it again went secretive, but this time it was only the priests who were allowed in to the inner sanctum.  St Peter’s originally had a very small arch to the choir area – with enough incense the people could not see what the priests were doing and they only received communion once or twice a year, and then only the bread.  The 16C reformers tried to bring this back and re-instated the idea of everyone gathering around a table to share in the remembrance of Jesus.  In the event, the people voted with their hands and few took communion, other than at Easter and Christmas, until about 50 years ago when the idea of having communion at nearly every service took off.

These are the simplified words of our communion service:

The Lord is here.                                          All: His Spirit is with us.

Lift up your hearts.                                      All: We lift them to the Lord.

Let us give thanks to the Lord our God.   All: It is right to give thanks and praise

It is right to praise you, Father, Lord of all creation; in your love you made us for yourself.

When we turned away you did not reject us, but came to meet us in your Son.

In Christ you shared our life that we might live in him and he in us.

He opened his arms of love upon the cross and made for all the perfect sacrifice for sin.

On the night he was betrayed, at supper with his friends he took bread, and gave you thanks; he broke it (the minister breaks the bread) and gave it to them, saying: Take, eat; this is my body which is given for you; do this in remembrance of me.

At the end of supper, taking the cup of wine, he gave you thanks, and said: Drink this, all of you; this is my blood of the new covenant, which is shed for you for the forgiveness of sins; do this in remembrance of me.

As we proclaim his death and celebrate his rising in glory, send your Holy Spirit that this bread and this wine may be to us the body and blood of your dear Son. With your whole Church throughout the world we offer you this sacrifice of praise and lift our voice to join the eternal song of heaven: All Holy, holy, holy Lord, God of power and might, Heaven and earth are full of your glory. Hosanna in the highest.

 

In these few short words we have numerous things to think about:

1.        It is assumed that God himself is present with us.

2.        We are remembering the death of Jesus, as well as his last supper.  The reason we remember his death is that this was the sacrifice that “opened the gates of heaven” as it says in a different version.

3.        To take the bread and drink the wine is to associate ourselves with Jesus, not only in his life but in his death.  We are saying that we will join him on the cross – part of his body and he part of ours.  Mystical stuff – what does it mean?

4.        In the full version we say, “We who are many are one body because we all share in one bread.”  In the communion service we celebrate the oneness of the church – there is no distinction for we are all part of each other. 

It was being in communion services that convinced me to offer for the ministry.  Watching two people take the bread and wine, symbols of their earthly life, to the altar knowing that the one carrying the bread had just lost his job and was thus “unable to provide bread” for his family, and the one carrying the wine was an alcoholic “blew my mind”.  I then watched as the priest took the bread, gave thanks, broke it and gave it back with the people who had brought it.  The thing that would transform them was simply an emblem of their own life – broken and shared with others.  At St Matthews you can see others receiving communion – it is very moving, especially once you know what is going on in their lives.  I still find communion intensely moving and am often unable to sing the last hymn because I am still caught up in what has happened by simply breaking bread.

5.        Some of you receive communion and some do not.  It might be interesting to discuss your feelings when you come to the altar rail, (or just sit in your pew).

There is a missionary element in the communion service.  At the end of it we may pray:  All: Almighty God, we thank you for feeding us with the body and blood of your Son Jesus Christ.  Through him we offer you our souls and bodies to be a living sacrifice.  Send us out in the power of your Spirit to live and work to your praise and glory.   Amen.

No wonder the Romans thought the early Christians were into cannibalism.  But the whole thrust of Jesus’ teachings to his disciples was that we should be like him – prepared to give up everything for others.  In taking the bread and wine we make that commitment and seek God’s strength to fulfil it.

 

When I’m travelling I often “break bread” – in the hotel or factory canteen.  As I do so I think of the people I’ve met that week, the people at St Peter’s, my friends and family.  By simply remembering them as I remember Jesus in breaking a piece of bread, I think I’m closer to what Jesus meant than the most magnificent ceremony in a cathedral.  And what of you, meeting round a table, sharing food and wine?