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You will be asked to send a letter to your florist if they are providing additional items, such as pew ends.

St Peter’s is a listed building, subject to both government and church rules and the ONLY legal way in which anyone can do so much as stick a pin into our building is by applying for a “faculty”.  This is not only a lot more expensive than a ball of string but also takes about three months, compared to the few moments of thought required to get most displays in position.  We’ve not been defeated yet by the challenge of getting a display into place without banging nails into the woodwork but do get your florist to speak to us well in advance of the wedding if you are having additional flowers.

Our flower ladies create some stunning displays so my personal advice is to come along and see a wedding before you spend a vast amount on extra flowers.  To be honest, pew ends – the most popular adornment - may get in your way when you walk down the aisle and have a nasty habit of going “thud, thud” on the floor during the service.  The archway is nice and adds a spot of lightness to the rather dark doorway.

The substance of the letter is similar to this. 

Dear Florist,

Each year we are privileged to conduct about 40 weddings at St Peter’s Church in Bredhurst.  Whilst the church normally provides a full display of flowers, there are additional items that some brides ask their florists to provide.  There is no limit to what can be attempted but St Peter’s is a listed building and much of its structure is very old.  So we cannot allow nails, screws, glues or similar fixings to be used on the fabric or furniture of the church.  Having made that point, I hope that the following notes will assist you if you are asked to provide additional displays. 

1.          The standard flowers provided by the church are altar flowers, vestry table posy, and a large display on the chancel step.  Recently, our flower ladies have also placed flowers in the windows and on the font but we cannot guarantee this in the future.  Please ask the bride to check if you need to know what we are doing.  During Lent (40 days leading up to Easter) we do not provide flowers but couples are very welcome to provide their own, though we do ask them to remove the displays afterwards so I suggest you use your own stands. 

2.         Potted tree balls are often used outside the porch door.  There is no restriction on these but be aware that the path is very narrow.  Pop up and have a look if you’re not sure.

3.         An archway over the door is very effective.  They can be attached by string (I suggest black or very dark green) as the angled boards are not structural and have clearance all round, approximately half way up each side.  These boards are in a very delicate condition and I must again emphasise that no fixings, not even pins, may be used.  Please bring your own steps – ours are too rickety.

4.         Pew Ends are the most popular floral addition.  A hundred and fifty years of polishing have made the pews exceedingly slippery so the best fittings are rigid wire clipped over the pew end.  The thin, black, florist’s tape also works but it tends to leave marks.  Pins, screws, nails, etc. are strictly forbidden.  The most important thing to note is that the aisle is very narrow – if you are asked for pew ends, check that the bride is not wearing a wide dress.

I hope you found this useful.  If you have any questions please do not hesitate to call us.

 

            Yours sincerely

                                                Graham Lewis, Curate